10 Things you Need Do to Marinate your Love Today
They called February a love month; who am I to say otherwise. In the same mood therefore, I'll take advantage by sharing with us 10 things you need to try out with your spouse this season of love and romance. The Swahili wise men will say 'Bembeleza Mapenzi'!
1.Explore
Explore areas that make your spouse reach their peak quick fast. Some might be quite usual as you've tried them before and seemed to be working for you. Advance them.
2. Adventure
Find more spots for your spouse. Get out of your comfort zones to find out more adventurous sides of your partner. Try out new things, new styles, new conversations with them. See what works for you and take it home. What doesn't, just drop it as fast. It will be good for future reference.
3. Discover
Ensure you are clear on what really brought you together. Discover what exactly makes you tick before him/her. When all is said and done, and when things decide to fall apart, what is that one thing that will bring you back on track about your partner.
4. Learn.
Learn About the habits you need to keep for them and grow them. That strong character that keeps a smile on their lips, please develop it even more.
5. Unlearn.
We say we shall do anything for you while in the dating season. This now is the best time to actualize that phrase. It's time to unlearn habits that make them be embarrassed of you or even harbour some hate for you.
6. Cultivate tranquility
This is a time for good vibes, positivity, and transparency. Try cultivate a pure atmosphere one without hidden agenda for any course. Be good at cultivating peace every moment, with everyone. That way, it will trickle down to your special one.
7. Explore a different love language
You probably know which one your partner understands. However, they might have two. Why not just go through the rest to know which other one best suits them. As a result, they will also learn yours and you will both be satisfied at the end.
8. About character
Knowing their temperament will also help you know what you can't change or rather what they can't change so as to device a way of living with it. During this season, find the ways that u can live with that bit of them that is not so pleasant and still be happy.
9. Be team players
Do something together. I don't know. Maybe a project, a hobby a family thing, play a game....just find something to seal your love. Cause you make the best team ever.
10. Family bond
And finally, strengthen the family cord. Let it grow tighter by the day. Advance from where you were yesterday to better people who have no hard feelings for each other hidden down there waiting to erupt when triggered. Talk to each other in the best way possible and you'll realize that things could still be solved without shouting at each other. This will also be achieved through praying together and secretly to each other.
Which point do you plan on working on? Share with us please.